Healing, Love, and Legacy: A Season of Gratitude

Life has a funny way of slowing you down just when you think you’ve found your rhythm.

Recently, I had leg surgery—something I was a little nervous about, to be honest. But what could’ve been a stressful, overwhelming time turned into something incredibly beautiful, all because of the people around me… especially one very special person.

My boyfriend, honestly, is the sweetest soul I’ve ever met. He was there for me every step of the way, keeping me calm before surgery (no small feat, knowing how anxious I get). And yes—he even made sure I had chicken soup waiting for me when I got home. It’s the little things, but also the deep emotional support that really hits you. He just gets me. Sometimes I have to pinch myself, because I’ve never had someone care for me like this. Am I dreaming? I’m one lucky girl—truly.

The surgery went well. It was one of the longest days of my life. I came home with 20 incisions—ouch! Tomorrow or Saturday, I’ll have to change the bandages. I’m dreading how they’ll look (and yes, my 13-year-old has already dubbed me “Frankenstein’s wife,” in the most lovingly savage way possible). To be fair, I’ve also been known to answer to “witch” on occasion, so maybe it fits!

In a few days, I’ll see the doctor for a post-op visit before gearing up for surgery #2, which honestly has me a bit more on edge. It’s a game-changer. But it’s something I have to do—for my health, my future, and to keep showing up as my full sunshine self for the two handsome men in my life.

As I heal, I’m also pouring my energy into something really meaningful: a legacy project for the Dever School, a place that’s helped shape who I am. I’m working on getting a street sign placed in its honor this coming spring—fingers crossed! It’s my way of giving back to a school that’s often overlooked, but never short on heart.

Alongside that, I’ve been working on my legacy blog (stay tuned!) and diving back into my first love: poetry. Creativity is becoming my compass while I heal—something steady to guide me through this unfamiliar season.

And… if all of that weren’t enough to keep me out of trouble (😉), I’m also planning something extra special for November: my one-year anniversary with my sweet, amazing, and incredibly supportive boyfriend. Can you believe it?! I won’t spoil the surprise just yet, but it’s going to be meaningful.

So, while this season began with surgery and stitches, it’s also overflowing with love, reflection, creativity, and just a little bit of chicken soup magic.

Until next time—with gratitude,